Thursday, September 23, 2010

How to Test a Man's Love For You! Here is How to Know If He Truly Loves You Or is Just Acting

Love relationships is really great feelings
Men and women have different ways of showing love. Women tend to be more expressive and emotional, while men tend to, well, be more non-chalant about it. And sometimes, men simply don't get the point of why they have to keep on reassuring their woman when, in their view, they're already expressing it the way they know how.

So women have this tendency to test them, if only to reassure themselves instead. If you want to test your man's love for you, then you can ask yourself some simple questions:

Does he take genuine interest in what you do?
Your man is interested to know how your day at the charity went, or how your most recent project is going. He likes to know things that go on in your world.

Does he make time for you?
No matter how busy he is, he makes time to be with you, or if he can't do that, he calls you or sends you messages. This only means that he cares about the quality time that you spend together.

Does he give you the space to grow?
You can gauge a man's love if he does not hamper your personal growth. He lets you spread your wings and explore, to reach for the sky. He supports your endeavors, and is happy for your successes, even the little ones.

Is he honest with you?
He doesn't try to keep his mobile phone or wallet or notebook from you, because he has no reason to. There are no secret phone calls or meetings or emails.

Does he do things to try to make you happy?
Men will go for miles to do things that would make their woman happy. These things do not have to be extravagant. It can be as simple as buying spaghetti sauce from the 24-hour grocery... in the middle of the night... in the rain.

Does he miss you?
When you're apart, even just for the day, he calls you or sends you text messages or emails. And sometimes, even when you're together but you're preoccupied with a project, he already shows you that he misses you.

Does he tell you?
Men are not comfortable with the "L" word, so if he tells you that he loves you, then you can be assured.

These things, of course, are not carved in stone. Individuals differ. The ultimate way is... do you believe in your gut that he loves you?

0 comments:

Post a Comment