Monday, January 17, 2011

How To Get A Man To Love You As Much As You Love Him

When you are truly in love with a man and you feel that your love is not being returned it hurts. What can you do to get him to love you more? You may feel that your relationship is destined to be one sided where you show him love but he does not return the love to you. If this describes your situation do not give up. There are things you can do to improve the relationship you have with your man. Sometimes the answer to a problem is simply to look at it in a different light. If the man in your life is important to you consider the following if you feel he does not love you as much as you love him.

The man in your life does not know how to show his love for you. Some men have a hard time expressing themselves and this can affect their ability to give you love. If your man grew up being taught that showing love or any emotion was a sign of weakness it can be very difficult to suddenly express love even though he has very deep feelings for you. If this is the case you are going to have to show him by example expressions of love and let him know that expressing feelings are not a sigh of weakness. Confident men are able to express their emotions at the right time.

Your man is afraid of getting hurt. Many men do not show love or emotion towards someone else because they think it could lead to rejection. No one wants to get hurt or feel pain and your man is no exception. He would probably like very much to express his love for you and just needs some encouragement. If he knows you truly love him he is much more likely to show love to you. When the time is right talk to your man and tell him how much his love means to you. Let him know that you appreciate him.

Keep in mind that sometimes men show love in ways that women do not recognize. Men will often times not come right out and say they love you but will attempt to show how much they love you by what they do for you. Running errands for you, spending time with you and doing things for you. You get the picture. This may seem mundane to you but to him it is how he is attempting to show love towards you. Do not take these little acts of kindness for granted. Let him know how much you appreciate him and he might surprise you in the many ways he starts showing you how much he really loves you.

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